If I had any advice?

Marry someone who has a lot in common with you. Like, someone who will ride trainers with you and do a half ironman with you and go to yoga with you at 6 in the morning and ski in powder with you all day and visit art museums and make you boards to paint on and backpack canyon lands with you and binge on Indian food and and encourage you to do the things they love but that you're scared of like mountain biking, rock climbing and double black diamonds and stare in awe at the majesty of Yosemite with you and encourage you to snorkel in the ocean even though your deathly afraid of sharks and tell you your voice is pretty when you weren't even trying to sound good and chastise you for snitching the cookie dough or eating straight out of the icecream carton when you promised yourself you wouldn't and go to the store to buy tampons for you and stretch your legs and make you food after a 60 mile bike ride and sacrifice precious study time to help you clean the house and run errands. Cuz that's who I married. And it's been an unbelievably awesome 9 1/2 months.

Happy valentines day Sam. Love you.